Guide for families
Loneliness in later life: small steps that help
Loneliness is common, and it is nobody's fault. Small, regular steps can make a real difference, for the person you care about and for you.
How common is it?
Loneliness can happen at any age. About 1 in 5 Australians say they often feel very lonely, based on long-running survey data reported by the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare.
Older people are more likely to feel isolated. Living alone, losing a partner or friends, retiring, and other big life changes can all play a part.
Why it matters
Loneliness is more than a sad feeling. It can raise the risk of depression and anxiety, poor sleep, and health problems such as heart disease, high blood pressure and stroke.
Research has linked loneliness and isolation with dying earlier, about as strongly as obesity is.
A major 2024 report on dementia, the Lancet Commission, lists social isolation and hearing loss among 14 risk factors that can be changed. Tackling these risks across life could help prevent or delay up to 45% of dementia cases. This does not mean loneliness causes dementia, but staying socially connected is one way to look after the brain.
Small steps families can take
- Keep in regular touch. A short call at the same time each week gives something to look forward to.
- Check hearing. Untreated hearing loss can lead to isolation and low mood. A GP or audiologist can help. Some people can get subsidised hearing services through the government Hearing Services Program (1800 500 726).
- Sort out transport. If getting out is the problem, help with transport may be available through My Aged Care.
- Find a group that fits. Clubs, classes, walking groups, faith or cultural groups, and library activities are all worth a look. Offer to go along the first time.
- Try a Men's Shed. There are more than 1,300 sheds around Australia where people share skills and company. Search at mensshed.org or call 1300 550 009.
- Volunteer. It brings purpose and new faces. Volunteering WA lists local roles: (08) 9482 4333.
- Visit a memory café. These relaxed catch-ups are for people living with dementia and their carers. Forget-Me-Not Memory Cafés run in Perth and regional WA, including at Australind Library.
Finding local activities in WA
LiveUp is a free, government-funded healthy ageing service. Its activity finder lists local exercise classes, social activities and groups. Its Navigators can help on 1800 951 971. Your local council and library are also good places to ask what is on nearby. Group activities, such as music and movement classes, are one more way to meet people.
Someone to talk to
If loneliness is affecting someone's mood, Beyond Blue counsellors are available 24/7 on 1300 22 4636. Talking to a GP can help too.
If someone is in crisis, call Lifeline on 13 11 14, or text 0477 13 11 14. If a life is in danger, call 000.
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Phone lines that can help
Emergency
000If a life is in danger.
Beyond Blue
1300 22 4636Free, confidential counselling by phone, 24/7. Webchat also available.
Lifeline
13 11 1424-hour crisis support and suicide prevention. Text 0477 13 11 14.
LiveUp
1800 951 971Free healthy ageing advice and help finding local activities and groups.
Australian Men's Shed Association
1300 550 009Find a Men's Shed near you.
Volunteering WA
(08) 9482 4333Find volunteering roles in WA. Monday to Friday, 8:30am to 4:30pm.
Sources
- Social isolation and loneliness, Australian Institute of Health and Welfare
- Loneliness and isolation, healthdirect Australia
- Hearing loss, healthdirect Australia
- Worried about your memory? (brain health tips), healthdirect Australia
- Lancet report reinforces importance of brain health (media release, 2 Aug 2024), Dementia Australia
- Dementia prevention, intervention, and care: 2024 report of the Lancet standing Commission (Livingston G et al., Lancet 2024;404:572-628), The Lancet
- Hearing Services Program, Department of Health, Disability and Ageing
- Support at Home, My Aged Care, Australian Government
- Australian Men's Shed Association, Australian Men's Shed Association
- Volunteering WA, Volunteering WA
- Forget-Me-Not Dementia Support (memory cafés), Dementia Australia
- Forget Me Not Memory Cafe - Australind, Shire of Harvey
- LiveUp, LiveUp (iLA)
- Talk to a counsellor, Beyond Blue
- Lifeline Australia, Lifeline Australia
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